

We've Been Thinking About Thriving at Work All Wrong
Most organizations genuinely care about employee wellbeing. They offer wellness programs, flexible work, mental health resources, and better benefits than ever before. Those investments matter. But they also make me wonder. If we've invested so much in wellbeing, why do so many people still end the week mentally exhausted? I think the answer is surprisingly simple. We've confused wellbeing with thriving. Wellbeing helps people feel better. Thriving helps people perform better
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Increase Your Surface Area for Opportunities
One of the best things you can do for yourself is surprisingly simple: increase your surface area for opportunities. That might look like going outside more, trying a new café, taking a different route home, talking to someone you normally wouldn’t, or simply asking more questions. It sounds like casual advice, but there is real brain science behind why this works. Most people wait for something to happen. The right opportunity, the right connection, the right moment. But you
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You Are Winning at Life When the Goal Is Experience
A few weeks ago, I stopped at a gas station I had no intention of stopping at. I wasn't hungry, thirsty, or in need of anything from the convenience store. I had simply been driving for hours and decided to pull off the highway. Inside was a freezer full of ice cream bars I'd never seen before. I bought one and sat on the curb outside watching people come and go while trucks rolled past on the interstate. Nothing remarkable happened. No breakthrough. No life lesson. Just a fe
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When You Feel Stressed, Stuck, or Completely Overwhelmed… Start Here
Before you try to solve the problem, pause and ask yourself a different set of questions: Is my belly full? Am I hydrated? Have I seen the sun today? Have I moved or stretched my body? Can I sit up, relax my jaw, and soften my face? Can I take a slow breath in and fully exhale? Have I written anything down to clear my thoughts? Can I say one kind thing to myself? Who do I want to be in this moment? What if I am okay? At first glance, these questions can feel almost too simple
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